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Speeting:
Melbourne's only speed meeting event for kinksters
How many kinksters can you meet in a couple of hours?
Speed Meeting or 'Speeting' is a social event for the kink/fetish community based on the basic Speed Dating structure, dividing by male-identifying and female-identifying (with gender fluid or non-binary peoples balancing the groups) and offering a concentrated dose of socialisation. But here's where 'Speeting' is different… Whatever you're looking for, it applauds you for LOOKING and helps you do so. This is going to be perfect for people new to the Melbourne kink scene, looking to meet like-minded people, or those players who just find it hard to get out.
There is no pressure on anyone to find a 'match'; none on you; none on them; none on me. This is all about finding connections, regardless of perceived compatibility. All that is required of you is a real interest in meeting other kinksters, an open mind, and a respectful attitude. People looking for more intimate attachments are also encouraged to come... That seemingly mismatched person you see sitting across from you could be the connection you need.
Here's how the the event will run:
On arrival you will receive an envelope containing a 'Prompt Card', paper and pen. Your Prompt Card will contain some conversation starters (some serious, some not so) to help you out if you're ever feeling stuck or overwhelmed. Keep your pen and paper handy for your own note-taking throughout the event.
We will work on five minute meets with one minute in between for notes and place changes. After an hour or so, there will be a ten-fifteen minute break, after which, the meeting will resume. Once the meetings are complete, we will debrief over coffee and cake and other nibbly niceties, and you will have an opportunity to continue conversations, or take the opportunity to be introduced to those you may not have met.
Speeting runs on the last Saturday of every month 4.30 - 6.30pm at PULSE, 1 Pitt st, Brunswick. To stay updated, join our Mailing List.
Speed Meeting or 'Speeting' is a social event for the kink/fetish community based on the basic Speed Dating structure, dividing by male-identifying and female-identifying (with gender fluid or non-binary peoples balancing the groups) and offering a concentrated dose of socialisation. But here's where 'Speeting' is different… Whatever you're looking for, it applauds you for LOOKING and helps you do so. This is going to be perfect for people new to the Melbourne kink scene, looking to meet like-minded people, or those players who just find it hard to get out.
There is no pressure on anyone to find a 'match'; none on you; none on them; none on me. This is all about finding connections, regardless of perceived compatibility. All that is required of you is a real interest in meeting other kinksters, an open mind, and a respectful attitude. People looking for more intimate attachments are also encouraged to come... That seemingly mismatched person you see sitting across from you could be the connection you need.
Here's how the the event will run:
On arrival you will receive an envelope containing a 'Prompt Card', paper and pen. Your Prompt Card will contain some conversation starters (some serious, some not so) to help you out if you're ever feeling stuck or overwhelmed. Keep your pen and paper handy for your own note-taking throughout the event.
We will work on five minute meets with one minute in between for notes and place changes. After an hour or so, there will be a ten-fifteen minute break, after which, the meeting will resume. Once the meetings are complete, we will debrief over coffee and cake and other nibbly niceties, and you will have an opportunity to continue conversations, or take the opportunity to be introduced to those you may not have met.
Speeting runs on the last Saturday of every month 4.30 - 6.30pm at PULSE, 1 Pitt st, Brunswick. To stay updated, join our Mailing List.
word play
In these 90 minute sessions we explore the erotic, the playful, the messy; we spend the time with our imaginations and bring some fantasies into reality. The focus here is on FUN, FREEDOM and FLOW… Have no fear of failed spelling; do not ponder punctuation… There are games to build confidence, exercises to enhance the erotic, and an opportunity to produce and present your own piece.
An ability to 'write right' is by no means a prerequisite, but we do expect participants to be literate and have at least some appreciation of language and/or erotica. We aim for participants to feel empowered by their ability to express themselves in a fun, non-judgemental group, and indulge in the inspiration such a melding of minds brings.
These sessions are informal and friendly, sometimes silly and spontaneous, and always saucy at some stage. We'll talk, write and play erotica, expand our minds, our vocabs and our styles. The group is facilitated by writer, educator and performer, Renée Glover, who's a pretty cool chick and knows her stuff. And apparently she'll also be providing the tea/coffee/cookie action too, so… All participants need to bring is their pen and paper, a willingness to engage, and that most important of sex organs, The Brain.
An ability to 'write right' is by no means a prerequisite, but we do expect participants to be literate and have at least some appreciation of language and/or erotica. We aim for participants to feel empowered by their ability to express themselves in a fun, non-judgemental group, and indulge in the inspiration such a melding of minds brings.
These sessions are informal and friendly, sometimes silly and spontaneous, and always saucy at some stage. We'll talk, write and play erotica, expand our minds, our vocabs and our styles. The group is facilitated by writer, educator and performer, Renée Glover, who's a pretty cool chick and knows her stuff. And apparently she'll also be providing the tea/coffee/cookie action too, so… All participants need to bring is their pen and paper, a willingness to engage, and that most important of sex organs, The Brain.
talkin' Dirty
'Talkin' Dirty' is a unique opportunity to explore your sexual, sensual and erotic self-expression with like-minded people under the guidance of an experienced and well-respected educator, speaker and writer… Renée Glover. Created and developed by Renée this workshop gives you the confidence to speak, whisper or groan your deepest desires in ways that will aurally fixate your lover...
These are skills that can be used in the bedroom, or out when you feel like getting up to a little mischief. Grab your lover's attention with your words, dominate them with your voice, have the confidence to tell them all the wonderfully dirty things you would like to do to them.
In this workshop Renée will give you the tools on how to…
- Develop your 'sexy voice'
- Enhance your sexual self-expression in a supportive environment
- Discover how 'talk' can add a whole new dimension to your sex life
- Learn some basic tips for sexy sentences...
- Continue your exploration with practical knowledge and FUN exercises to take home
With 20 years professional experience working with words, and several years focusing those words on the erotic, the sensual and sexual, this open-minded and curious kitty (Renée) takes a fairly unique approach to teaching. Her sessions are playful, engaging, illuminating and thoroughly entertaining. Added to this is her ability to communicate comfortably and effectively with an eclectic mix of people and her passion for sharing her skills and enabling self-confidence in her participants.
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Recent Feedback:
~ 'What a group of fascinating people today. In that environment I feel "normal"... So much for me to learn and explore - that's so exciting!'
~ 'That is the most fun I've had with my mouth in ages.'
~ 'Thanks so much for a wonderful day - it exceeded all my expectations. I'll be sure to look out for future workshops.'
~ 'That was one of the best days of my life. No, seriously...'
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What to bring:
A tolerance for strong language, pen and paper if you wish to take notes, and the most vital of sex organs, your mind.
S.M.U.T (Sexy Mature Unabashed Tasteful) Writing 101
SMUT treads the ground between the erotic and the pornographic, acknowledging that both can be done in good and bad taste. This is a workshop to encourage writers to discover their own threshold for smut, challenging old ideas and bringing new ones to light. Facilitating these engaging and enlightening sessions is Renée Glover - a professional writer and experienced educator, who not only brings her working knowledge of literature, writing, and sex to the table, but an open mind and a willingness to learn from others.
Commitment to this course is vital. To create a space of comfort and trust, familiarity and an ability to rely on each other is a must. Identity of all participants will remain entirely confidential, unless otherwise agreed.
(SMUT Writing 101 will re-commence later this year - We'll let you know when we do...)
Commitment to this course is vital. To create a space of comfort and trust, familiarity and an ability to rely on each other is a must. Identity of all participants will remain entirely confidential, unless otherwise agreed.
- six-part course over twelve weeks (run every second week for 2.5 hours per session - short break included)
- aimed at both amateur and professional writers
- expand the erotic vocabulary
- learn exercises to engage the senses while writing
- spend time talking with other writers and get feedback on your own erotic piece
- discover simple techniques to give your mind and writing a stimulating edge
- find new-found confidence in your fantasies and self-expression
- conclude the course with a completed work
(SMUT Writing 101 will re-commence later this year - We'll let you know when we do...)
cyber-chat etiquette...
In this workshop we take a real look at the virtual world of sex chatrooms - the cliches, the cliques, the gender dynamics, and cultural mistranslations… How language is power in these realms, and how the concept of 'truth' effects a user's experience.
Like any other social situation, the online chatroom has it's own rules and regulations; often these are difficult to effectively police. It also has it's own set of manners and etiquette which can be more efficiently policed by other users and room moderators. The nature of the sex chatroom is such that both the fun, information and drama are intensified; one is encouraged to divulge and share sexual fantasies with few restrictions on language and/or topic.
This two hour workshop aims to educate chatroom users (both old and new) on ways to avoid the drama and enhance the fun.
Learn how to:
Like any other social situation, the online chatroom has it's own rules and regulations; often these are difficult to effectively police. It also has it's own set of manners and etiquette which can be more efficiently policed by other users and room moderators. The nature of the sex chatroom is such that both the fun, information and drama are intensified; one is encouraged to divulge and share sexual fantasies with few restrictions on language and/or topic.
This two hour workshop aims to educate chatroom users (both old and new) on ways to avoid the drama and enhance the fun.
Learn how to:
- gain the most effective use of the chatroom
- enhance your online 'profile'
- find a place you 'belong'
- avoid cyber-bullying and have confidence if dealing with it
- stay in control of your time